Dating a writer for others may not be a good idea. People usually think that these bunch of people are too deep and too difficult to converse with. But the truth is, dating a writer might be an exciting experience to try atleast once in your lifetime. Because they can be the one who can bring you to different worlds that you never been before.
When you are with them, you will get a sneak peek of everything. They will allow you to experience and stimulate your curiosity. Hence, you will never be bored when you are with them. So date them because aside from the stated reasons, here are the exciting things why you should date a writer:
- Writers see what is good in people, they won’t judge you. They already know human emotions. They are sensitive. They can understand you because they know where you are coming. You are allowed to be real when you are with them because they understand human behavior. Human emotions will be same with feelings showed by the characters in the stories they have written. So dating a writer, is beneficial especially when you are feeling down. They are ready to listen wholeheartedly for they know how much pain it may cause when people ignore your aches. You can open up anything to them. They like it a lot especially if you are the one who will lead the conversation. They allow you to talk. And when you talk, they are picking up the puzzle and analyzes what kind of person you are. If you able to inspire them, you will probably be one of the main characters in the story they will write.
- Writers are romantic, if you date them, you really feel how to be loved and cared the way you deserve it. In the world where betrayal is too easy to commit, writers stick to their ideals. Everything for them is red roses. They know that there are thorns in roses but they just ignore it. Instead they use the thorns to make a rose much more loveable. To apply it in reality, writers only look for the positive sides of everything. They know they can get hurt but they pour all that they have when they love you. They will grasp the rose even if they get bleed by its thorns. They still hold it tight. Because that it should how roses or any flowers must be appreciated. So does in love. Writers will hold you tight even if you are hard to be loved. They will give you glimpse of how you should be loved and cared for.
- Writers are dynamic, flexible, and creative so expect that your imagination will widen. They like everything to be aesthetically appealing and think with no box because they break every notion of reality. They push you to try everything. They know that experiences are important so you have to chase all the things you’ve wanted. They are like their mind. They always wander. They don’t like to be dealt with the same situation or dilemmas. When you date them, you will be inspired to change the way you think and act.
- Writers are born natural talkers, if they don’t talk, they just listen in your stories. Writers are like to share the stories they are brimming up and books they have read. You will never get bored when they talk because they do it with substance and passion. When they are telling stories, you vividly imagine all the things that they are talking as if you are watching a movie in the big screen. They like to talk but they allow you to interfere and ask what you will say about. Because they talk aloud and enthusiastically, when it is your turn to share, they are listening earnestly. They listen closely to what you are saying, and they can remember it as if already engraved on their memory the stories you have shared. Thus, they value your opinion because they believe that every person has something to contribute. They love hearing your ups and downs. You can get their attention throughout the conversation especially if you show some emotions. You are allowed to cry, laugh, and get angry when you speak with them, and that is definitely be okay.
- Writers speak life. Words are the engine of writers’ soul, aside from their imagination of course. They know when they pull over the trigger of positivity. They lavishly discharge from their mouth the words you wanted to hear. They are cognizant with the importance and power of words. How words can either lift or destroy self-esteem of a person. When they speak, they carefully choose the words that have lasting effect. Because they know that words must not be abused and be internalized first before given to someone. They speak life because they are kind. For writers, every person deserves to hear words that motivate.
- Writers are usually kind and soft spoken. When you date a writer, the first thing you may notice is the sound of their voice. Most of the time, they are soft spoken. When you listen closely to their voice it seems like you are listening to a lullaby because of its softness. When you heard their voice, you can imagine how kindness permeates throughout their system. You will like to listen when they talk although you can recognize hint of shyness but there is something about their voice that you want to tarry that captivates you to listen.
There are many reasons why you should date a writer. So when someone you know is a writer ask him/her to have a date. If you ever have a chance to date a writer, grab the opportunity. You may never know what beautiful things await when you date a writer. If not given a chance, find somebody who can read and capture photos, because these lovely individuals are all the same and have similar characteristics. But if you have a chance to date a writer, give them books. Date them in museum and library. Ask them to watch movies and talk with him/her which parts of the movie affects him/her deeply. More importantly, give them cup, much better if the cup has brewed coffee. Look them in their eyes, you will see their beauty.
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